A Canada-based Nigerian man has taken to social media to expose his wife for taking him to court and demanding full custody of their children, while also expecting him to pay full child support, as well as special and extraordinary expenses—all because he no longer wants to continue the marriage.
The man made the revelation in a series of posts shared on his Facebook page, where he poured out his frustration over the ongoing legal battle.
According to him, despite his wife contributing nothing to their marriage, she now wants to take away the only thing she gave him—their children—through the court system.
He claimed that she’s seeking full custody and sole decision-making rights, leaving him with no access to the children, while expecting him to cover all financial responsibilities.
He further revealed that part of the legal documents he was served requested that he list all the properties he owns both within and outside Ontario.
Lamenting over the situation, he accused his wife’s family of being deeply impoverished and trying to use him as a means to escape poverty.
One of his posts read:
“You went to court to demand full custody of the kids and to be the sole decision maker. The only thing you want me to do is pay child support, along with special and extraordinary expenses. I can’t even have a say in my kids’ lives. Am I an ATM? All because I said I’m walking away from the marriage.”
“They’re even asking me to list my properties in Ontario and outside Ontario. You won’t understand how I feel until you marry into a family full of lies and deceit—one that thinks you’re a tool to escape poverty. When you stop giving, they start fighting. Don’t ever tell me to delete this post. You are not mad!”
He went on to reflect on a recent suicide case involving a cardiologist, stating that people often encourage men to speak up but discourage them when they do.
“A few weeks ago, a cardiologist committed suicide and many said he should have spoken up. Now that I’m speaking up, people want me to pull my posts down. Who gave you the right? I’m sharing this to enlighten innocent men who think love is enough.”
Mocking his wife’s demands, he added:
“The only thing you ever brought to the table is what you’re now fighting for—full custody.”
The man also advised other men to protect their assets before getting married.
“Dear men, if asking a woman what she’s bringing to the table offends her, boot her out. Always sign a prenup. Let them call you names—you’ll be glad you did.”
He said he received an email from his wife’s lawyer just as he was about to pick up the kids, which broke him down emotionally.
According to him, her earlier attempts to frame him at the police station failed, and now she is trying to take the kids away while shutting him out of their lives.
“You and your mother lived a life you never dreamed of because of me. Now you want to take my money and deny me access to my kids? I’m speaking out now so there’s a record.”
He ended by addressing his children directly:
“Dearest kids, your mother is fighting for full custody and wants to make all decisions without me. She wants me to only provide money, so she can later cry on Facebook about deadbeat fathers. But you know I gave you the best life while I was with you. My dear daughter, I threw the biggest birthday party ever in Sudbury when you turned one—Samuel Eweama and Sunday Chile Thelma were witnesses.”
“Let this serve as evidence: I will never give up on you, my children. No matter what.”
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