Lara Kudayisi, a life coach and relationship therapist, has caused a stir with her shocking revelations that have gone viral on social media.
In a frank interview on the Honest Bunch Podcast, she disclosed that she had 15 abortions and went through 14 heart-wrenching breakups, leaving many Nigerians in shock and the online community buzzing.
The uproar began when a segment of her revealing interview circulated widely. Kudayisi spoke about how her struggles with low self-esteem led her to make difficult choices, including becoming a mother at the age of 19 and facing the emotional toll of multiple abortions.
She said: “I had a child at 19, 14 heartbreaks and 15 abortions. I could not even say no to sex, it was that bad. Low self-esteem can make you do crazy things. Na im belle enter, doctor just say ‘I can see the head of the baby’ my mom just fainted.
“My father sent word ‘I must not see you again, this is not my child’. ‘No tell man say you get pikin in the beginning, if you tell am, he go leave you, so, let him fall in love with you first,’ so, I took the advice, and that was the greatest mistake of my life. Every divorcee has the tendency to divorce again.”
Kudayisi didn’t hold back. When she was asked about her first divorce, she disclosed a surprising fact—financial struggles led to the end of her marriage. She frankly admitted that she walked away from her husband over money problems.
“No money. I was the man. He was the woman. Nedu, I was never ever connected emotionally, physically, anything to this man. I was the one who made the decisions, I was the leader, I was the man…”, She continued.
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As anticipated, her shocking revelations created a buzz online. Nigerians rushed to social media to express their views, with reactions that included both disapproval and empathy.
Some people condemned her for what they considered poor choices, while others were touched by her honesty.
