Social commentator Solomon Buchi has weighed in on the heated online debate surrounding billionaire businessman Obi Cubana, whose real name is Obinna Iyiegbu.
The controversy began when Cubana publicly refuted claims made by his adopted son, Chidi, and shared a photo of his biological son, Alex, announcing him as his official next of kin. The gesture stirred mixed reactions across social media platforms.
Many Nigerians criticized the businessman, accusing him of harshly sidelining Chidi and questioning the depth of his affection for the adopted child. Critics viewed the public nature of the announcement as insensitive and dismissive.
However, some supported Cubana’s decision, arguing that Chidi may have overstepped his boundaries. The incident sparked a wider conversation that drew commentary from Solomon Buchi.
Buchi expressed disappointment in Cubana’s approach, stating that he had expected a more thoughtful response. He emphasized that once a child is adopted, they become part of the family in every sense and should be treated with the same love and dignity as a biological child.
“Coming online to declare your biological son next of kin because of a cheeky post by your adopted son is irresponsible and crass. Obi Cubana could have easily asked him to take the post down, but he decided to publicly remind his adopted son of “his place”. Don’t adopt children if you will not see and treat them like your blood.”
“I’ve seen Nigerian men defend Obi Cubana, claiming that the adopted son should have known his place. “His place” doesn’t exist because he’s his father’s son. Adoption means legally taking another child as yours, so an adopted son should have ALL the rights and privileges of a SON.”
See some comments below:
@Chukwuemeka_AA:”This people wan put sand inside Cubana and family matter, an wa.”
@fabulous_ify:”Why do you think your school of thought is always right?”
@21desteanyshots:”But you know maybe na him wife say make him clear the air without wasting time.”
@roxuzoma:”Cubana is a Real African Man. A son is a son. No matter how non civilised or Non Educated I will sound. Even the civilised world believes and does same. It’s an age long human civilization. The son is all.”
@ObuMalachy:”Even if it’s the second son, Obi cubana still have the right to correct it. Buhhh you’ll feel is Cuz he’s adopted. He’s not even the eldest.”
@ams8071:”His adopted son is f00lish for playing dirty. Asking him to take the post down, will not change anything. If my biological older son comes online playing with such sensitive topic, I will shock him by naming his baby sibling as my next of kin ‘online’.”
@camillusBsc:”You’re not privy to whatever that’s happening in Obi’s home. Things we call cruise are subtle messages. Talmbout love, that boy has got loads of love and has been better treated much more than some biological kids.. It’s much important we set things straight sometimes.”
@AdeoluSavage:”Hmmmmm. On a second thought. He should have actually told the boy to take the post down.”
