A struggling Nigerian man pleads for advice after his girlfriend flaunted substantial birthday gifts from other men, including a money bouquet on her status.
The man, who reached out anonymously to an X influencer @bigfeeztm, revealed that financial constraints prevented him from giving his girlfriend the lavish celebration she desired.
However, he was taken aback when she posted a money bouquet and multiple credit alerts from other men on her status.
Expressing his dilemma, he wrote:
“Omo, baba, today na my babe birthday and I tell her about my financial issues, but she understand. This morning, she post that money thing, and like three guys don credit her funds wey she post for status. Make I confront her?”
The post has sparked a wave of reactions from many who suggested that she may be in a relationship with other men while others argued it might be a platonic friendship.
@KushDeniyi wrote in reaction, “Make he know that it’s already over. Just keep her for konji time. Keep all the evidence when it’s time to strike back you will use the evidence counter her. Baba life no hard use your head before them go help you use it.”
Another user @dlazygirl said: “Let’s be honest. Some men are so insecure and it’s disgusting!! But I don’t think that’s the case here…I think the guy’s pain is the way he found out. Many people don’t understand a relationship requires trust and a lottttt of compromise.
It’s your birthday, receive gifts, that’s absolutely normal, but your man shouldn’t be finding out about such gifts on your status tho.”
